Every student who attends college will put in varying amounts of effort yet every student who attends college (and passes all their classes of course) will receive a very expensive piece of paper and a handshake from their Universities president at the end of four years. There are some days you just don’t feel like putting in the effort, some days you don’t feel like going to that guest lecturer (it’s not required so who cares) because no matter what, as long as you pass (with a C or an A ) you will be handed your diploma.
Would you do college differently if you had to go for four years but you were not given a degree?
What would you work towards during your four years if you don’t have that expensive piece of paper to work for?
What would you try and get out of college if you had to go but there was no such thing as a bachelors degree?
Think about it… after your four years at college you walk up to an employer and hand them your resume. You did four years of college. The person next to you only went to high school but it’s been four years since they went so you’re both the same age. Under the ‘Education’ line on your resume you both have High School Diploma (remember there’s no such thing as a college degree). Who will they hire? Answer: they hire the other person. Why? Because you spent four years partying and just going to class. They spend four years traveling, doing mission work, community service, they attended conferences, and held part time jobs here and there. You get angry… you just spent four years at college! How can they not hire you??? The thing is, you had every opportunity to do what they did. Why didn’t you take it?
Think about college now. What will you try and get out of your years at college if you weren’t handed a diploma at the end? You might think…. well what’s the point of college then if it’s just all about experience? Well, there are many reasons academically, socially, growth, etc but for the purpose of this post…. the point of college is that you get spoon fed the opportunities to do the same things that the ‘non-college-goer’ did while they had to research and work their butt’s off to find and create those opportunities.
You are lucky! Don’t waste what you are given.
Please keep this is mind when you meet new people at school. Everyone you meet has a story. Be kind.
Everyone wants to be at the top of the mountain but nobody wants to climb it.
School has started. For those of you who are returning college students, ‘welcome back!’ For you new freshman, ‘welcome!’ For you new students, even you returning ones, you might look back on all you have done throughout high school and pat yourself on the back. You may have been class president, a class officer, member of an honor society, member of an organziation, you won the community service award, you were captain of your varsity sports team, maybe you were even valedictorian, or won a college scholarship because of how super smart you were in your science classes in high school. Well, let me first off say ‘congrats’ and then let me say ‘your high school success or lack thereof doesn’t actually matter as you make the transition to college.
You’ve worked so hard to get to where you are today and yes, now i am going to tell you that it’s time to start over. Did you enjoy being successful in high school? Did you dislike being a bum and now you want to revamp your life? Either way you have to start back at the bottom and work your way up. Freshman, this is your time to! Returning students, it’s never too late to get started. The majority of your schools will probably provide an involvement fair at the beginning of the semester. Go to it! Learn about different organizations and just sign up for one. If you go there with too much enthusiasm and sign up for a bunch of groups you will overwhelm yourself and probably not attend any meetings. Find one group you like, sign up for it and attend their meeting. Help with one project in that group and work on it until it is accomplished. Then, onto the next project. What do we call this????…..climbing back up!
You’ve moved in, said your goodbyes (lots of tears? it’s okay!) and it’s your first night alone at college. What do you do? Many of you may sit in bed with your laptop and click through facebook, you’ll probably text your friends or talk to your parents. Hopefully your roommate has moved in too so that you have someone to talk to. What are you feeling? Scared, alone, unfamiliar, sad, awkward? I promise you the nights get better! If you’re in bed and thinking, ‘omg i can’t do this, this is so uncomfortable i just want to be home’ my response to you (in the nicest way) is stop complaining, suck it up, you’re a grown up now and you CAN do this! Don’t let loneliness defeat you, you need to give yourself time before you make any drastic moves and pack up and go home. Some of you may actually be bored. No worries, once school starts you will have enough work to keep you busy. Once everyone moves in you will have plenty of people to meet and hang out with. In fact, enjoy the first few awkward nights when the dorms are quiet and nobody knows what to do because soon you’ll have nights where you are itching for a quiet night. Like I said… you CAN do this! There are thousands of freshman who are feeling the same way as you so stop reading this post, close your laptop and go meet other freshman. Finally, if you are really lonely and you’re still having a hard time connecting to your environment, go buy a fish. Strange? NO! Having a fish will give you something to take care of and look forward to seeing when you come back to your room. Name it Gabby!
Talk to you soon,
I sat down today planning on giving you my advice on college professor’s pet peeves. I figured it was a good time to start talking about these things because many of you are starting to move into your colleges and universities now and for all of you freshman this is the beginning of ‘Professor’ life, no more ‘Teacher’ life. Buuuuuut, I started reading my daily news sources to catch up on what’s happening around the world and I found a really good and humorous article about “High School Habits to Break Before College” and I couldn’t help but share it with you. I found it on the Huffington Post today and here we go….
“Incoming college freshmen, take note: University life comes with an unwritten rule book. Break any one of these regulations and your lowly freshman status will instantly be revealed. (Quick tip: Don’t wear your school’s lanyard around your neck. Just don’t.)
Luckily for college newbies, Reddit uses compiled a handy list last week of high school habits to drop before you set foot on campus. Read below to soak up their wisdom. Before you know it, you’ll be a college pro, too.
- Your life isn’t over if you walk into class late. Just calmly go in and take a seat. You’ll be fine.
- Yes. It will be on the test.
- Don’t make excuses for late or missing work. Unless the professor is brand new, we’ve heard many well-crafted fake excuses.
- After a test, you don’t have to stick around. Pack your stuff and leave quietly.
- Acting like you’re the coolest kid around is extremely annoying. No one cares about how much you drank last night. If it’s that impressive people will brag for you.
- Stop asking random people for a piece of gum when they take it out of their bag. Get your own gum.
- Stop asking people what they got on SAT/ACT/AP/whathaveyou… nobody cares.
- Don’t fall victim to “no more parents, no more rules”; especially on food.
- If you are sick do not bring a note from your parents.
- Don’t wear those stupid lanyards with the school name around your neck.
- Don’t shout out snide comments during class trying to get people to laugh. We don’t care if “that’s what she said” we just want to learn.
- Don’t be the kid who talks about being gifted/skipping a grade/your average in high school. If you go to a good school, everyone else is just as smart. If you go to an okay school no one gives two shits about that.”
These were great! Thank’s Huffington Post!
If any of you readers have advice as to what habits students should drop when they become college students please post below.
118 Ways to Save Money in College
The article is kind of wordy, I didn’t even read the entire thing but skip around the site because even if you stumble upon a few good tips you can save some cash while you’re in college. Money disappears very easily in college.
Make sure to create “Me Time,” a time when you sit by yourself and think about what is going on in life. Too often we look towards other for advice and we look towards others for acceptance. Why? What advice would you give yourself? Take time to think about the changes that happen at college, the things that you have going on, and the things that you’ve done (good and bad). Are you satisfied with what is going on? Can you set goals for yourself? Most importantly, remember to breath and trust that everything will be just fine… cause ya know what? It will be.