You Need To Be On Time

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Be on time for every class, every day. I understand that it’s hard to walk in on time in lecture halls of 300 students or with professors who are cool and don’t really care. However, you need to be on time. It’s just one of those things. You’ll be doing yourself a favor. You’ll know what is going on in class and you’ll get the seat you want. Even if professors don’t take attendance, they will take note of the students who arrive late and the students who fall asleep in class. Some professors will make a point to call you out on that but many times professors just won’t care. What a waste of money. Pay tens of thousands of dollars for a service that you sleep right through.  For those of you who want to be on time and who want to stay awake in class but just can’t, here are some things I suggest.

  1. Schedule your classes for later in the day.
  2. Research any online classes that the school offers and consider taking one.
  3. Start drinking coffee.
  4. Go to bed early!
  5. Go to class with the goal of participating – if you walk into a class telling yourself that you will raise your hand and participate then you will be more attentive as you wait for the right moment to do so.
  6. If you feel yourself dozing in class, excuse yourself, go take a quick walk, take a deep breath, and recharge for the rest of the class.

Start Building Your Resume!

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While there are many ways to create and build your social brand online through linkedin, twitter, e-portfolio’s, personal website, etc. i still believe in the power of a paper resume. When you apply for internships and jobs you still upload your resume or hand it to an employer at a career fair. Of course you’ll have the links to all of your online portfolios on your resume, but your one page resume is what an employee browses first. If they like what they see they will then do more research on you and browse through the rest of your information. I always tell students, and I’m sure I’ve said it in posts before, your GPA and your MAJOR are ONE LINE of your resume. There is A LOT more space to fill in on that piece of paper. It’s great that you were president of National Honor Society, captain of the soccer team, head lifeguard at the beach, and babysat the same kids for 4 years throughout high school however, campus recruiters don’t care about that. They know how much opportunity and experiences are available on a college campus and they want to see that you are taking advantage of those experiences. How do you start doing that? Here are some tips on jumping into the ‘experience’ world and start building your resume now!…even as a Freshman in college.

1. Join a club – This is the most obvious one. Clubs look great on a resume and are extremely useful to your college experience. You will network, meet alumni, possibly attend conferences, get active on campus, meet new friends and if you get involved early on, as a freshman or sophomore, you’ll have a much better chance of holding a leadership position as a junior or senior. Employer’s LOVE seeing leadership on a resume.

2. Talk to a professor – Ask them if they know of an opportunities for you. Ask them if they know of something that you may be interested in. When I was teaching freshman I had a student come ask me this. I had been a part of the campus for 6 years at that time and I knew the in’s and out’s of the campus so when she said she wanted to get involved I knew exactly where she would do well and what department she should apply for a student job in.

3. Find the Career Services office – Go into career services and introduce yourself. You want they to know you! Also ask them if they know of opportunities for you. Freshman, there are opportunities that are specifically for YOU – sophomores, juniors and seniors cannot do them. There are programs specifically for certain ages and you may miss them if you sit around and do nothing. Also – ask them if they have someone who can review your resume or if they have services to learn about how to create a resume and start revising!

 

‘Smart’ is Cool in College

smartcollegeThe kid who always walks into class late, the girl who yells obscene things across the hall, the student who talks back to the teacher, the guy who throws desks across the room, the students who park where ever the they want even if it’s in ‘faculty only’ parking, and the girls who wear the least amount of clothes…. yea those kids, they’re the cool kids in high school. They were the ones who got the attention, the ones who were always noticed, and invited to the best parties. They were cool….in high school. Things are a little different in college. Some of the students with the best reputations in college are the students who are the smartest. They are the students who do the most internships, who are always at networking events on campus, who tutor their classmates, who are making money during the semester. The people in college who get the most attention, the ones who get noticed by faculty, and the ones who are successful are the ones who:
1. Speak up in class and ask or say intelligent things
2. Dress appropriately
3. Talk to the professors
4. Give great presentations in class
5. Show up to class prepared
5. Do outstanding academic work and are featured on the school website or in the school newspaper for a major achievement
6. Are NICE…. you’d be surprised at how many people are well known for simply being a really nice person
Being respectful, being a good student, and acting like an adult are what will get you known (for the right reasons) in college. If you are a ‘nerd’ in high school and are thinking about changing your image in college because you want to be a ‘cool’ kid now, don’t do it! Keep being who you are. Today, the people who were considered the ‘smart kids’ in my high school are now some of the most successful people I know, which brings up another reason why you should be nice to everyone in your high school and in college. Those ‘smart kids’ grow up to be really successful and you never know when you might need their help or their expertise or a reference to another very successful person they know. Connections are key!

You Only Give ONE First Impression, Don’t Screw It Up

Closeup portrait of a group of business people laughingIt’s true that most people will judge you within the first second of meeting you and their opinion will most likely never change. You can form a good or bad reputation in the first weekend of college. People will form opinions about you even without meeting you. My first weekend of college I had formed opinions about people just based on observing the way they acted and also based on what other people said about them. It didn’t matter what happened over the next 4 years, because when I saw those people at graduation, I still remembered the first impression I had of them. It’s human nature to form an opinion about someone. Do a little experiment today, make an effort to meet someone new. As you meet them, be conscious of the observations you make about them. Are they speaking clearly, are they fidgeting, are they rambling on, are they making eye contact with you? Then as you leave, think about the opinion you formed of them. Is it a good one? Why? What kinds of things did they do that impressed you? Takes that impressed you and keep them in your back pocket, pull them out when it’s time for you to meet someone new.

Making a good first impression is incredibly important, because you only get one shot at it.  So how do you make sure that people are judging you accurately? Not just new friends but your professors, teaching assistants, graduate assistants, RA’s, administrators, corporate recruiters who come to campus, upper classman, everyone that you meet will form a first impression about you. Here is my best piece of advice for you to make sure you give the BEST first impression:

Know your purpose and your intention when meeting someone. One of the most important things to do when approaching someone is knowing why you are meeting them. It may sound odd but it will make you come across more confident and keep you in charge of the conversation. Think about it, if you see a professor and just walk up to them thinking, “oh man, here’s a professor, I should meet them so they know me, I hope I don’t screw up, I’m really nervous,” you’re going to go up to them, put out your hand and said, “Hi I’m Gabby” and then they’ll say “Hi I’m professor ‘whoever’ it’s nice to meet you.” Then after a few seconds of awkward silence, you’ll smile and fidget and maybe say something that doesn’t make sense and then walk away having achieved nothing. First impression – fail! So instead what you should do is think about your purpose. Think, “I am going to go up to the professor to introduce myself and let him know that I am excited about the first semester. I am going to keep it quick, I will remember to smile, I am going to speak clearly….now take a deep breath and stand up straight.” As I walk over I know exactly what I am going to do and exactly what I am going to say and I have just taken a deep breath so I am feeling good and I am feeling confident. I walk up to the professor, put out my hand and say “Hi Professor ‘whoever’ my name is Gabby. I wanted to take a minute to introduce myself and let you know that I’m really looking forward to this semester [smile].” He may then say something as simple as “great it’s nice to meet you” and then you can say “You too, have a good day, I’ll see you next class.” Bing, Bang, Boom. Great first impression – success! Simply because I had a plan. It was much better than the smile and stare and awkward shuffling of paper as I walk away looking like an idiot. Having a plan or an introduction in mind will help you for every conversation you have and it will, without a doubt, help  you master the first impression.

Gear Up For the First Semester

transitioningThis first month of school is critical for setting up the rest of your semester. It doesn’t matter if you’re a new freshman or a returning upperclassman the transition from home life to school life is up to you. You have the opportunity to build a strong foundation for the rest of the semester, don’t let bad habits take over. Start to take control of your responsibilities – go to the gym, eat healthy snacks, watch those ‘liquid’ calories, stay up to date on classwork, and take a look at these simple 10 to-do’s to help you build a strong foundation. I suggest you take a few minutes to do arts and crafts, write these out on a piece of paper, bring them to school with you and hang them above your desk. I am a true believe in visualization – if something is staring you in the face everyday you will do it, or accomplish it. Add to your list daily!

1. Get to know your roommates – sit with them and really get to know them. These are the people you are going to spend the most amount of time with. You don’t have to be their best friend but you do have to live with them (and they have to live with you).

2. Get Organized! Your professor may have assigned work and projects and told you about them on day 1. Don’t expect them to remind you everyday about it and if you forget to hand it in when it’s due you will not get away with the excuse ‘i didnt know it was due.’ Get a planner and fill in the dates when assignments are due.

3. Go to class – Sleeping in and skipping your morning class may seem tempting, who’s making you go anyway? Get up and go! You are paying to be there, don’t waste your money.

4. Meet with your professors. Take the extra minute to show up before class or stay after class and meet your professor. Ask them a question, or tell them that you are enjoying their class so far. They’re human (everyone likes to be given complements) and they’ll appreciate the positive feedback.

5. Let go of the pressure of having to know exactly what you want to study – You’ve probably met a number of people who say they know exactly what they want to do when they graduate (i’d bet money that majority of those people have no idea what they want to do). College is a time to discover what you want to do. Let those people do what they want to do and be excited that you aren’t locked into one track right now, you are exploring!

6. Stay healthy! Go to the gym, eat your fruit and veggies, listen to music and go for a walk by yourself.

7. Take a deep breath.

8. Don’t cut corner – nobody gets placed on the top of the mountain, they all have to climb it.

9. Seek help when you need it – are you really stressed? Are your eating habits getting out of hand? Are you drinking more than you expected? Dont be afraid to ask for help. Walk to health services (trust me they’ve seen and heard it all) and tell them what is going on. Are you confused on an assignment? E-mail your professor, reach out to a classmate or go to the tutoring center. People want to help you.

1o. Call home to your family – they miss you, they want to hear from you.

 

Always Be Ready For a Pop Quiz

pop quizAlways comes to class as though there was going to be a pop quiz. The benefit of this is two-fold: first you’ll be more able to participate in class; second you’ll be prepared if there actually is a pop quiz. Living by this motto will help you immensely! First off, many professors don’t require students to do homework. They will assign it but leave the responsibility up to you. Most students will not to the homework. Because of this, they aren’t prepared to participate in class and they’ll, without a doubt, be scramming at the end of the semester to learn everything for the final exam. If you decide to take the advice and prepare for every class you will inevitably earn a better grade and reduce your stress during finals. If you come prepared you will absorb more information because you will know what the professor is talking about, you will have more questions, you will participate more (participation points!!) and if there is a pop quiz, you will ace it! Also, you will learn more as a student if you gradually absorb the material you are taught. If you study a little before every class you will find that studying for the final exam will be more like a review rather than a race to cram information into your brain and memorize as much as you can.