Dating

Now is the time to date!  When will you ever been in an environment where you are surrounded by thousands of guys and girls who are all around the same age as you.  I know it’s hard to actually date in college and yes I am talking about old fashion, just you and him or you and her sitting together, without cell phones, and talking to each other, getting to know each other.  Now is the time!  Don’t feel like every conversation with a guy or girl has to turn into a relationship.  The truth is… it won’t BUT it may or at the least it will get you closer to learning what type of person you want to be with.  There are LOTS of fish in the sea you’re in right now.  (Some sharks, some clams, some yucky seeweed too so be careful).

 

Falling In Love at College

You are meeting all kinds of people are school now.  Has someone swept you off your feet?  Is there a girl or guy that you can’t keep your eyes off of?  Have you told yourself to ‘snap out of it’ because ‘this is college, the time to explore, not the time to get caught up in relationships’??  Love happens at times that we don’t always plan for.  Don’t be afraid to fall in love.  Let it happen.  When it happens, don’t fight it.  Enjoy it, celebrate it, make it work, but don’t let it define you or your college experience.  Many people meet their spouse during their college years.  Do not look for it but if you’re lucky enough to have it fall in your lap… let love happen.

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